ADHD Parent Support Group
This week is Neurodiversity Celebration Week, where those with ADHD and other conditions such as Autism, Tourettes Syndrome, Dyslexia and Dyspraxia raise awareness and celebrate the positive elements of being neurodiverse.
Claire will be delivering a free online session called Myths around ADHD organised by ADHD Wise UK
Free tickets are available from Eventbrite https://www.eventbrite.com/e/myths-around-adhdneurodiversity-tickets-145906800167/
Welcome to 2021 and less than a fortnight in, it looks as though, as parents, we’re set for at least a few more months of disruption.
For the first January in many years, we don’t have a full year’s worth of face to face meet ups in our diary, because at the moment we have genuinely no idea when we’ll be able to walk through the doors of Funky Monkey, order a coffee, sit down on their comfy chairs and chat to other parents and carers.
Whilst most face to face activities have moved online, we haven’t been able to do this with our meet ups. As a parent and carer peer space, we simply have no way to ensure that conversations wouldn’t be overheard by people in the background if we “just used Zoom instead”, so in order to maintain confidentiality and ensure that our usual safeguarding practices remained in tact, we held our breath and waited. Our private Facebook group has however remained open as a safe space for discussions.
When the first lockdown kicked in all those months ago, we assumed that our private group would be unindated with parents and carers needing support but instead we’ve found that the group has been quieter than usual. There could be a number of reasons for this but it appears that a large portion of the explanation is that when you take school attendance out of the equation, some of the stress that comes with parenting a child or young person with ADHD simply disappears. The peer group drama, the issues around detentions for late attendance or a lack of equipment, cease to be a daily discussion if children don’t go to school every day. When bullying, issues with individual teachers and school bus incidents are not part of every day life, it seems that parenting changes. I don’t personally think that this means parents are having a lovely time day in and day out, just that the challenges are different.
As a child, essentially our life is very focused around what happens at home and what happens in school, and as parents our home-life is heavily influenced by the schools our children attend and their experiences there. We’re interested to see how this changes things for our families and we’d love to know more about the ups and downs.
We’ve decided that although we can’t hold our usual meet ups online that we will do some form of online event each month to try and replicate the info share that usually takes place at the start of our meet ups. We’re currently working out the best way to do that. Facebook Live has been suggested as a good idea because it doesn’t require anybody to log in or master video calling, Facebook is also good at prompting people with reminders, Facebook rooms is also a possibility however there are downsides. Both of these options require anyone attending to use Facebook and we know that not all our families use that platform, so we’ll give it some thought and let you know what we decide to go with.
Happy New Year
Claire
We’re always looking for new ways to raise awareness about ADHD so a couple of years ago we started the SPACE Advent Calendar. Every day you’ll get a new fact, quote or interesting bit of information about ADHD
For us here at SPACE every month is ADHD Awareness Month, but October is the time when the whole community shouts at the same time.
We hoped that by now we wouldn’t still need to tell people about ADHD, we’ve been telling people for years but the message still hasn’t fully got through so throughout the year and especially in October we share key bits of information about ADHD. What it is, what it isn’t, which “facts” are actually myths and probably most importantly that the never-ending stereotype of 10 year old boys bouncing off classrooms walls isn’t the only way it presents.
For the rest of the month (and with slightly less fanfare, every month after that) we’ll be sharing facts, information, quotes and other interesting ADHD titbits to help you feel more informed.
We’d also love you to get involved. If you see things on our public Facebook page, Twitter account or Instagram and feel able to share them, like them or comment on them, then please do. If you know somebody that would benefit from visiting our website feel free to share the link. If you have questions that we can answer for you, let us know.
Over the next month we will be sharing opportunities for you to tell us what you think, share your experiences and have your say. bot on our websites and on our social media channels. We have an online community for parents and carers of children with ADHD and that community isn’t just about the three people that officially run this charity, it’s a community for parents and carers of children with ADHD. Ignorance and stigma around ADHD harms our families and their wider communities
We’re going to be as creative as we can in the time allowed to shout from the rooftops about ADHD and we’d love you all to get on the roof and shout with us.
Happy ADHD Awareness Month
The SPACE Team
We recently came across this video by Thomas E Brown PhD, that we think provides a lot of useful information about ADHD including helpful examples of how some people can be affected.
